Struggles...

So here friends are a couple struggles I am dealing with spiritually and internally...

1. 3 friends commited suicide in a week.... Did they go to Heaven or Hell?
2. Did God speak to me in my dreams last night? Does he speak to us in dreams?
3. Why do elder Christians have such problems with being held accountable?

Help me dear friends... Comments appreciated.. Phone calls appreciated... Prayers much needed...!